As we are entering this first month of baseball starting back up, we are getting used to some different things happening on the fields. Coaches wearing masks, home plate umpires calling balls and strikes from behind the pitchers mound, social distancing in the stands and only pre-packaged food in our concessions stands (not those great ballpark hotdogs and hamburgers). We are learning and adapting to a lot of new situations. Many of us, as coaches, are just now starting to build our team. In a normal year, our players would have already played a season of school ball and would be conditioned and ready to go for the summer. Looking forward to the traveling and new experiences each weekend. That isn’t happening this year. We are having to condition as we go and teach many new things to our group that they may have normally learned in school ball.
To create our new team, we begin excited and ready to jump right in. Only to find out there are some gaps in their game. So, we must tear down our individual players in order to build them back up as a team. Ever had any players that thought they knew it all? Never made mistakes? Parents know they are the best player on the team? Get mad when they don’t get to play the position they think they should be playing? Yep, we all have. In order to get to that “ONE TEAM” mentality, each player must be STRIPPED of those individualist thinkings and REBUILT with a team disposition. Even Jesus recognizes this in Matthew 16:24-25, “Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.” As players, we must deny ourselves and join our team. As coaches, we must be ready to lead this team.
How do we TEAR them DOWN? We have them run laps or sub them out for errors or not giving any effort. We make sure they know-they are replaceable. Someone once told me, if you think you are practicing hard, there is someone out there practicing more and you will meet them one day- so be ready! Let’s take a look at an example of this tear down process.
In the book of 1 Samuel, David was stripped of just about everything. Normally, when I think about David I think about the powerful King that loved God. But David was TORN DOWN before he was BUILT UP. David lost his position as one of Israel’s most popular positions. He lost his wife because his father-in-law married her off to another man. He lost his spiritual mentor, Samuel. He lost his best friend Jonathan because he was bound by loyalty to stay with his father over staying with his best friend David. He lost his country by having to flee and seek refuge. Finally, he lost his dignity when he realized that King Achish recognized him while he was in hiding. Talk about being stripped down. David was completely stripped bare. But in this place of testing and TEARING DOWN, David realized he was also REBUILDING. He realized that through that difficult season in his life, he was pressed into knowing no helper but God. God was instructing David that He was his ONE true source. That was the ONE thing David would need to be a great king.
Now coaches, after having TORN DOWN all those selfish attitudes and individualist thinkings, are you REBUILDING with the team being a source of unity? How can you accomplish this feat? I Thessalonians 5:11, “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” Have that one-on-one meeting with each player. Discuss what it is he needs to work on, but also encourage him to continue doing something you have noticed he does well. Find a positive and re-enforce that. Does he cheer your team on no matter how bad you are losing? Does he fist bump players coming into the dugout after a bad play? Is he a great bunter? Is he a “never meet a stranger” kind of kid and you want him to get to know a new player who may be more timid? Whatever it is, and you may really have to look hard to find something, find that ONE positive. A team divided cannot be successful. Success is not only the wins and losses, but the atmosphere created by a coach and his team is a powerful force that creates life-long friendships.
Coaches-place your focus in the right place- show your team that Christ Jesus is your focus and work to implement His presence into the process of BUILDING UP your team. Start your practice and games with a prayer or devotion. It can be player driven. Ask a player to choose something a day or two before practice that he wants to talk to the team about as encouragement. A scripture, a song, a poem, a quote, a devotion or something of their own. Have a prayer before each game. Have them write a goal in the lid of their helmet or hat. You are instilling leadership, ownership and comaraderie through something that is not based on their talent and skills. It may prove to have a bigger influence on those players than you realize- on and off the field.
TEAR THEM DOWN WITH PURPOSE, BUILD THEM UP WITH CHRIST